Relationship Encounters Essay Research Paper DatingRelationship Factors

Relationship Encounters Essay, Research Paper

Dating-Relationship Factors Encountered by College Students

Sociology

Dating Relationship

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Abstract:

The purpose of this paper is to show overall views and many factors that college students encounter while in the dating relationship process. This paper will discuss the many issues that college students encounter while seeking companionship and friendship. The conclusion of this paper will discuss how students end their relationship.

Proposal Statement

Many college students will encounter challenges while in the dating process.

Introduction

When searching for a mate the selection may seem to be limited when finding a compatible mate. Many students will encounter factors that can enhance or destroy the relationship.

Literature Review

*Love at First Sight

..Scientists now believe that the impulse that drives us to mate, marry, and remain monogamous is not a result of mere social convention: It is also a complex mix of naturally occurring chemicals and hormones.that helps guide us through life’s most important decision (Dowling 1).. .Love at first sight is no apocryphal clich.. Writer Nuna Alberts reports that researchers now know why one glimpse of the right person can set off a chemical

reaction leading to romance. But what happens after that. Why do some relationships succeed while others fizzle. That may be more magic than science. New research in the field of love and attraction show that romance.long the domain of poets, philosophers and five-hankie movies.may be ruled as much by molecules as it is by emotion. The physiological component, say the researchers, may help explain some of love.s mysteries: why opposites attract, why so many seemingly mismatched couples succeed , why we stick together

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with partners through even the worst(Dowling 1).. When looking for a compatible mate, many “males and females tend to select partners with whom they share similar traits (Smith 1).” “Buss and Barnes (1996) studied a group of married people ranging in age from 18-40 years and found that the 10 most appealing attributes listed were honesty, companionship, affection, consideration, intelligence, dependableness, understanding, loyalty, interesting to talk to, and kindness (Smith 1).” “For instance, while Smith (1952) found some agreement with Walker, he noted that such qualities as friendliness and consideration were rated higher than status laden attributes, even though campus prestige (e.g. fraternity or sorority membership) had significant influence on (the) choice of dating partner (Smith 1).” “Results indicated females preferred to date a man who was similar to them in education and occupation and preferred to marry a man who had these similarities as well as religious values, and desire for children. Only men emphasized physical appearance in both dating and marital partners. Both sexes believed that homogamy is associated with happy and lasting relationships (Knox 1).” Many male and female college students prefer to date someone of the same caliber as himself or herself. “Both sexes believed that homogamy is associated with happy and lasting relationships. Homogamy refers to individual initiative toward sameness. The homogamy theory states that individuals tend to be attracted to and become involved with those who are similar to themselves in such characteristics as values, education, and age (Knox 1).” Many students who may not have a mate at the present time may choose an undesirable partner and will allow themselves to do things that they may not necessary want to do or find themselves in a very uncomfortable situation. When males or females, college or non-college-students make this choice their situation may become bleak. A female or male that becomes sexually active with an undesirable mate may incur an unwanted pregnancy.

*Relationship Problems (Challenges)

Domestic Violence

Many males and females may also suffer from domestic violence. ..Domestic violence occurs when spouses, intimate partners or dates use physical abuse, threats, emotional abuse, harassment or stalking to control the

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behavior of their partners..In studies of domestic violence on college campuses across the nation, the results are sobering. .there are many symptoms that can escalate to violent behavior. One is aggressive behavior, where feelings of anger or hurt are expressed by destroying property of sentimental value. Another is physical coercion of restraint, where individuals refuse to allow there partners to leave a situation.Those are certainly danger signs.Davis said once someone crosses the barrier where raised voices escalate to physical violence, the frequency and severity of abuse usually increase. .The biggest challenge for victims is to ask someone for help. Lambert agreed.sometimes it takes a long time before people are willing to get help (Fritchen 1-2). .Approximately 1 in 10 high school students has experienced physical violence in dating relationships. Among college students, the figure rises to 22%, equivalent to the rate for adults (Manning 1). “Domestic violence is not defined by specific acts, but by a combination of psychological, social, and familiar factors (Domestic Violence Facts a

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