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Title: How do language and cultural assumptions interact to benefit/disadvantage each member of the Chen family as they adapt to their new lives in Britain?

James Watson Between Two Cultures , discovered through long sociological analyses, that the attitude of the Chen family as a whole, towards Westerners is a good reflection of how many Chinese people feel about European cultures.

Of all the Chen s, it is probably Lily who displays the most convincing argument for this point of view. Lily shows no interest in assimilating with the Westerners and clings to her own cultural heritage instead.

Lily is certainly the strongest character in the book, both emotionally and possibly even physically. Her day to day activities are on the whole a good reflection of what Chinese women living in a different culture would be. She is the one to stay at home and has responsibility for the household and the bringing up of any children.

However unlike the majority of her counterparts, who on moving into a new community feel isolated and a burden on their families, Lily has a desire to succeed and make something of her life. It is almost as though, in some respects Lily resents the fact that she was born a woman, as is evidenced by the following line;

Man- Kee would have the opportunities which she had been excluded form herself because of her sex and ill-fortune

The drive and determination to fulfil her primary duty shows us Lily s very masculine attitude to her family and goes against the way in which most Chinese women, in this situation would behave.

Lily wants her relationship with Man-Kee and his childhood to be more loving than her own but although she tries very hard in this respect, she seems care more about the way that he is growing physically and mentally rather than emotionally. Again this is a reflection of the culture that she grew up in .

Although she tries sending him to an English school, her lack of understanding of the English Schooling system means that she eventually, ignoring the protests of Mui, sends him to a supplementary Chinese school. This is an institution whose methods of teaching she is familiar with and understands and her whole attitude towards his education changes from this. It is almost as though she can now relax, as she knows that his education is in good hands,

Lily uses her lack of understanding of the English language to her advantage when she is called upon by a snooping social worker. Here, she plays on the fact that she can t understand to her advantage, although it is obvious that she knows exactly what the woman wants to know.

There is a lot of role reversal between Lily and Chen in the book. It is Lily who has saved the money (and has therefore has some responsibility for finances), which enables them to buy the shop, and it is also Lily who takes on the task of teaching Man-Kee fist , a task that would usually be undertaken by the father.

This underlines Chens failings as a man in his culture, and his confidence in himself is therefore affected.

In the second paragraph of the book, Chen is described as an interloper . This word epitomises the whole of Chen s world. He is an outsider in his work, due to the fact that he is an outsider and not a kinsmen , and he feels like he is an outsider in his own home.

Chen is essentially a responsible and dutiful man. It is a result of him doing his duty as a son that he ends up at the gambling den, gets into debt and subsequently is killed.

He carries the burden of this debt alone as because in Chinese culture the husband is responsible for providing finances, Chen felt that if he told Lily, he would again be failing in his duty. The irony of this is that if he had told Lily, his debt could have been paid off immediately with the money that she has saved in the tea tin and all the upheaval that followed could have been avoided.

Although Chen has some understanding of the English language, he usually leaves it up to the women, mainly Mui, to do the talking. The only time in the book when we hear Chen speak in English is when he is talking with Mr. Contantinides. This is a reflection of both cultures, showing that in a business setting the man is always the one that is assumed to be in charge.

Of all the Chen s, it seems to be Mui, who has adapted to her new surroundings the best. Mui,s background of being a servant in a English Bachelors household would have already given her some insight into the language and culture of the English. However when she, like so many other Chinese women arrived in England, was subject to culture shock. She therefore lacked confidence and became dependent on the TV and Lily and Man-Kee for company. This obsession with TV and her particular fascination with soap operas and the news reinforced Mui s already working knowledge of English language and its culture.

She seems to have a greater understanding of Man-Kees emotional needs than Lily and is warmer and more maternal towards him. She understands that if Man-Kee is to succeed in this country, he must adopt some of its culture and language without losing a sense of his own identity and heritage.

She also has enough confidence and understanding of the British culture by the end of the book that she

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